Last year, my students (ages 9-12) LOVED Kung-Fu Panda.. it opens the door to talk about family, friends, characteristics of people. I liked to open with "If you were an animal, then what would you be?"
Introduce IF/THEN statements and get opinion coversations started. Later, I learned that if you ask that about their friends/ peers it works quite well.
Also, I was surprised to see that most of my students (high schoolers) this year loved to watch "The Nightmare Before Christmas". Everyone was quite and even said "sshhhh!!" to other students who talked during the movie.. although... almost no one talked ever.
We used it to talk about holidays, romance, and fears. I gave them a movie question sheet to make sure they paid attention, but it was good to show them after taking exams.. they poor kids were burned out.