Any other guys find Korean nightlife and women a bit frustrating?

[Jrong]

lemme holla at this thread so i can find it easier, i think it's gonna get hilarious.

:)

Bachata, que estas haciendo, viejo? Yours cannot be a real post/question...

[BachataHeights]

I dont even know where to begin. Bare with me....

@astoriagables

Um. No polite way to say this, but...that sounds...pretty superficial/shallow...I guess that is what nightlife is about, though. It's just different, and actually, that sort of thing sounds more appealing to me, personally...I don't like clubs because they're just so low-class or something like that. A place where you can dance and drink and enjoy yourself without guys trying to feel you up or just coming up behind you grinding on you sounds fine with me.

Nightlife is about going out at night and having fun. Which can vary greatly between people. Myself personally I can have fun and enjoy myself in almost any setting so long as I have good friends around. I'm sorry you feel clubs are low class, and for the record I am against random dudes going up to girls and "grinding" on them. Me personally I like to at the very least make sure the girl wants to dance with me first before invading her personal space ect. But there is no need to down grade what other people like do / go just because you have different tastes.


@Hoosier_Jedi

And this is supposed to be bad? I just thought it meant Koreans have some *class*.

Well, its bad for dudes that like to have hot women dance on them, which id assume most guys would enjoy. Class huh? lol


@JahRhythm

Don't worry boss, I have the secret!

Don't be an immature jag-off/creep.

Going out with friends, having some drinks, listening to music, dancing, and talking / meeting women is immature jagoff / creeper how? This is pretty much every guys ideal night at a club ect. SMH


@Jeff619

I think this about sums it up.  In my experience here I've never had any problems meeting women.  More often than not the women here approached me first. 

If you want to 'holla' and grind I'd suggest trying Songtan.  I saw lots of that in the Army clubs.

Meeting women in Korea is not the problem is an entirely different issue than the one I brought up. And btw, there is a difference between a girl approaching you to practice english / meet a foreign guy and a girl approaching you because she thinks your hot ect. Korean girls dont do much of the latter.


@bobrocket

When were you last out in a Korean club?

It was around February.


@yankees1477

I'm going to say on behalf of the female population (Western, Korean.. whatever!) don't waste your time and "hollar at us."  You are obviously the type of guy that give the rest of the male population a bad name.

On a more positive note.  Props the the guys here who obviously have some common decency and respect for women.

Dont kid yourself lady. Im no different from any other normal straight male. ie I like to go out with my friends and enjoy the night and also meet attractive women. Spare me.

[yankees1477]

One good thing about Korean girls is that once you get their approval they are very submissive! 

That's the part that bothers me.  I'm going to hope that most normal, straight guys don't actually think like this. 

[BachataHeights]

One good thing about Korean girls is that once you get their approval they are very submissive! 

That's the part that bothers me.  I'm going to hope that most normal, straight guys don't actually think like this.

This was a joke to any guys that know what im talking about.

SMH

[Frozencat99]

That was one of the more disturbingly misogynistic things I've read recently.  Who the hell uses "submissive" as a compliment?  (Outside of BDSM circles, anyways.)

You sound like precisely the kind of guy who gives the rest of us a bad rep.

Yep. It seems some straight guys are really ready to fulfill the "I'm going out to hookup with an easy girl" stereotype.

I'm going to say on behalf of the female population (Western, Korean.. whatever!) don't waste your time and "hollar at us."  You are obviously the type of guy that give the rest of the male population a bad name.

On a more positive note.  Props the the guys here who obviously have some common decency and respect for women.

Would you say that having actual respect for women and treating them like any other person is more appealing than a holla? 

[BachataHeights]

Would you say that having actual respect for women and treating them like any other person is more appealing than a holla? 

Loving the play on words.

 

[justanotherwaygook]

I'm going to say on behalf of the female population (Western, Korean.. whatever!) don't waste your time and "hollar at us."  You are obviously the type of guy that give the rest of the male population a bad name.

On a more positive note.  Props the the guys here who obviously have some common decency and respect for women.

Dont kid yourself lady. Im no different from any other normal straight male. ie I like to go out with my friends and enjoy the night and also meet attractive women. Spare me.

Then I guess I'm abnormal.

Submissive?  Seriously?

As someone who's been in a monogamous relationship with a Korean woman for nearly 2 years, that offends me.  Maybe Korean women are just some exotic plaything to you, but to a lot of us they're wives, girlfriends, friends or even family.

[BachataHeights]

I'm going to say on behalf of the female population (Western, Korean.. whatever!) don't waste your time and "hollar at us."  You are obviously the type of guy that give the rest of the male population a bad name.

On a more positive note.  Props the the guys here who obviously have some common decency and respect for women.

Dont kid yourself lady. Im no different from any other normal straight male. ie I like to go out with my friends and enjoy the night and also meet attractive women. Spare me.

Then I guess I'm abnormal.

Submissive?  Seriously?

As someone who's been in a monogamous relationship with a Korean woman for nearly 2 years, that offends me.  Maybe Korean women are just some exotic plaything to you, but to a lot of us they're wives, girlfriends, friends or even family.

Joke dude....

SMH

[Mark van]

Maybe Latin America and South East Asia has spoiled me and and I have unreasonable expectations but I found going out and Korean women a bit frustrating. For frame of reference all my experience is in Busan. Maybe this isnt the case in Seoul?

BachataHeights are you in Korea at the moment?

I see you posted this in another thread labelled "Daegu Breakdown"

Thanks guys.

If I decide to come to Korea around August Ill just take the best position I can find in either Daegu, Seoul, and Busan.

[sejongthefabulous]

I hope this thread gets deleted.
People go to clubs here to hang out with their friends and dance. Go to a nightclub and do some booking (good luck)....different culture different technique.

[BachataHeights]

Maybe Latin America and South East Asia has spoiled me and and I have unreasonable expectations but I found going out and Korean women a bit frustrating. For frame of reference all my experience is in Busan. Maybe this isnt the case in Seoul?

BachataHeights are you in Korea at the moment?

I see you posted this in another thread labelled "Daegu Breakdown"

Thanks guys.

If I decide to come to Korea around August Ill just take the best position I can find in either Daegu, Seoul, and Busan.

No I left Korea around February.

[justanotherwaygook]

I'm referring to the entirety of your misogynistic post.

[BachataHeights]

I hope this thread gets deleted.
People go to clubs here to hang out with their friends and dance. Go to a nightclub and do some booking (good luck)....different culture different technique.

People don't go to clubs in the States and other parts of the world to hangout with their friends and dance?

They do.

Just like im sure there are Korean guys that like to go out to clubs to hangout with their friends, dance AND meet women.

Only difference is the scope.

This thread is good in that it points out how the Korean culture is different from other parts of the world.

[lotte world]

So, basically you were living in Busan and left Korea in February.  Now you are planning to come back (in August), but because you couldn't get any hot Asian action you are polling for the best place to try next.  Is that right?

[BachataHeights]

I'm referring to the entirety of your misogynistic post.

I'm sorry, what in my post conveys a hatred or mistrust for women?

[BachataHeights]

So, basically you were living in Busan and left Korea in February.  Now you are planning to come back (in August), but because you couldn't get any hot Asian action you are polling for the best place to try next.  Is that right?

You guys have quite the imagination.

I got plenty of Asian action. I just had to go about it / obtain it in different methods than I am use to. Which is the whole point of the thread which people are over-looking.

[#basedcowboyshirt]

So, basically you were living in Busan and left Korea in February.  Now you are planning to come back (in August), but because you couldn't get any hot Asian action you are polling for the best place to try next.  Is that right?

You guys have quite the imagination.

I got plenty of Asian action. I just had to go about it / obtain it in different methods than I am use to. Which is the whole point of the thread which people are over-looking.

I just threw up in my mouth a little.

[Jrong]

I didn't think your post was serious b/c of my experiences. I'm in a long-term committed relationship but I've seen Korean girls throw themselves at Western guys a number of times and cannot believe it's that hard for you.

One time was hilarious. They were sitting in a waiting room and the girl was talking on and on about how she didn't have a boyfriend and how her friends all asked her why not and she said "uh, I don't know". Then she began asking the Western guy "do you have a girlfriend?" "why not?". "Oh, I am so lonely".....something like that would never happen in the West -- that's beyond throwing yourself at a guy. It cannot be that hard here.

[woman-king]

Besides the "submissive" comment you've now erased, another thing that I think may have bothered a lot of posters on Waygook is your comment about Western guys only getting ugly Korean women.  There are a lot of guys on this board who are in serious relationships with/married to Korean women.  You're obviously entitled to your opinions about others' attractiveness, but that sort of sweeping generalization about the partners of many long-time posters here is not going to make people happy.

[BachataHeights]

I didn't think your post was serious b/c of my experiences. I'm in a long-term committed relationship but I've seen Korean girls throw themselves at Western guys a number of times and cannot believe it's that hard for you.

One time was hilarious. They were sitting in a waiting room and the girl was talking on and on about how she didn't have a boyfriend and how her friends all asked her why not and she said "uh, I don't know". Then she began asking the Western guy "do you have a girlfriend?" "why not?". "Oh, I am so lonely".....something like that would never happen in the West -- that's beyond throwing yourself at a guy. It cannot be that hard here.

You seen this in Busan? I'm guessing your talking about Seoul, because I havent seen what you described! I mean I might have seen something similar from one or two ugly Korean chicks which I could count on one hand. From my experience that certainly is not the norm and is rare.