Thanks so much everyone I tried to look for a previous thread before I posted but didn't to find one. I'm so distracted by the loss that it's tough for me to keep my wits about me and figure out what's going on. I've now been told that it will be at a hospital and they sent me home to change. I wore black formal clothes today but my navy shirt had some red poppies on it and they told me to change it to black or plain navy and to wear black shoes as well. From what I knew about Il Tae he was Buddhist, so I guess I'm gonna have to bow. I hope to God it's just a picture and not his body. I really doubt they put his body there since he was very badly burned. Oh man, going to a funeral for someone you really liked is hard as it is, but it's so much harder when you have no idea what's going on. Thanks for all of the kind thoughts and advice everyone.