I really want to learn Korean, but Koreans don't want me to. It's weird. Plus my co-teacher uses her knowledge of Korean as like a weapon against me during class. She glances over in my direction and waits for my reaction. I'm like, yeah whatever. Why don't they have semi-mandatory Korean classes for NETs? I've studied Hebrew and Greek before. I hate that Koreans can be so uptight about their culture.
Why do you make it seem as if Koreans are monsters when it comes to learning Korean. Koreans aren't "uptight" about their culture because they're prideful or trying to withhold it from you. They've been through alot. Japan almost destroyed Korean "culture" during their occupation (language, clothes, schools, way of life, etc).
As for not having a semi-mandatory Korean Classes for NETs might sound nice, but Koreans are more concerned about learning English than you learning their language. After all they shipped us all the way here, pay for our housing, and pay our salary so they can teach their children English.
And... Koreans speak to you in English because they want to practice English. They're completely fine with you speaking to them in Korean, but they'll still respond to you in English. It's their way of practicing English. They correct my incorrect Korean, and I fix their incorrect English.
I've had mixed reactions in the past 2+ years. A lot of English responses, compliments in Korean, and unfortunately a decent handful of negative reactions as well. The feeling of '우리말' gets on my friggin' nerves, though I'll admit it's 9/10 the older generations sending that feeling out...
Again, they're not trying to make it "our language" kind of thing. That's just how they speak grammatically. 우리 말. It use to drive me crazy as a kid that they say, 우리 집 or 우리 식구 instead of 내집 or 내식구. It's like that. It's just their very proud of being able to have held onto their language that Japan almost demolished.
Just because it's different from what we're use to, doesn't mean that we're right and they're wrong. It's just different.
I'm Korean American, and I had a TOUGH time adjusting to Korea... I grew up with OLD FASHION Korean parents. Korea is not what it use to be, it's just different. They're still slow to in growing socially because they were forced to grow so fast economically. They have a very sad history, try to be a bit more understanding....
