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Would you ever move back to your home country?
« on: April 11, 2017, 01:27:15 PM »
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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2017, 02:00:50 PM »
I mean, maybe. Korea will never be my home but America is looking like shit. Ideally I would like to immigrate to a European country, but I know my chances of doing that are quite slim. So I am not sure what I am going to do with my life.  :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh:

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2017, 02:03:33 PM »
Yep, Canada isn't terrible.

On another note... why was this posted in Books, Film, and Music?  :P

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2017, 02:38:41 PM »
I mean, maybe. Korea will never be my home but America is looking like shit. Ideally I would like to immigrate to a European country, but I know my chances of doing that are quite slim. So I am not sure what I am going to do with my life.  :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh:


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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2017, 02:52:09 PM »
I kind of assumed I'd make my way back to the US after hopping around a bit buuuuuut the thought makes me very depressed. I'd at least like to wait out the Trump presidency but who knows what the country will look like once he's done skull-fking it.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2017, 02:52:40 PM »
I might if I ever decide what I want to do when I grow up.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2017, 03:12:24 PM »
 I would rather return to the Netherlands vs the USA to live. The NL isn't perfect, but I feel much happier returning there during vacations vs the USA.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #7 on: April 11, 2017, 03:19:24 PM »
I might if I ever decide what I want to do when I grow up.


Lol basically.  I feel like with each new job i only figure out what i don't wanna do for the rest of my life. I know career changes aren't uncommon but it feels like I'm doing the process of elimination in a really inefficient manner.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #8 on: April 11, 2017, 03:32:43 PM »
Of course. It's just a matter of when... leaving seems so final.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #9 on: April 11, 2017, 03:53:08 PM »


After Brexit?  Not on your life.  The future of the UK is summed up above.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #10 on: April 11, 2017, 03:54:04 PM »
My home country is run by a bunch of corrupt muppets. I've only been here for a year, long enough to see what SHOULD happen to shady leaders (RIP Park Geun-hye).

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #11 on: April 11, 2017, 04:12:01 PM »
I honestly think being a language teacher of some sort is what I'll be doing for the rest of my life, which I feel is pretty good. I like learning languages and when I can help other people learn languages I can feel pretty good.

As far as going back home...I just can't see the appeal in it anymore. Sometimes I miss home a little bit but my life was at a stand still for such a long time when I was there. At least it was at my hometown. It's not really a place I want to keep living in.

Maybe other places in the US? I mean...I don't know...

I know it's just my first year living abroad (in China right now) but I think I just like it better outside my country.
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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #12 on: April 11, 2017, 04:12:01 PM »
Part of me feels like I'm supposed to say yes so as not to reject my home country...but honestly, if I never live in America again I certainly won't cry about it. Its not that I'm not patriotic or hateful of my own country. Not in the slightest. I just certainly don't desire the typical "american dream" lifestyle. Let's just say that the people I've met while living abroad and the way I've started to develop - I feel more like myself than ever. Perhaps its just me but I feel stagnant while living in the US. I feel bored, restless, like no one around me has the same goals or life aspirations or world views (most of them have never been anywhere really). Not that I don't welcome opposition - I do - but if I feel like I'm wasting my life away there why would I stay? Not to sound like a Disney movie but there's a whole world out there!


Soooooo tldr its a big fat nope from me. If I can help it, anyway.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #13 on: April 11, 2017, 04:15:01 PM »
I honestly think being a language teacher of some sort is what I'll be doing for the rest of my life, which I feel is pretty good. I like learning languages and when I can help other people learn languages I can feel pretty good.

As far as going back home...I just can't see the appeal in it anymore. Sometimes I miss home a little bit but my life was at a stand still for such a long time when I was there. At least it was at my hometown. It's not really a place I want to keep living in.

Maybe other places in the US? I mean...I don't know...

I know it's just my first year living abroad (in China right now) but I think I just like it better outside my country.

oooh I just saw this and I totally agree ^ I understand how you feel.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #14 on: April 11, 2017, 04:26:15 PM »
Not if I can avoid it, no.

"Forever" in Korea isn't that attractive either so we'll see.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #15 on: April 11, 2017, 04:37:33 PM »
Maybe. Eventually. Though most likely a different part of the US than I grew up in. I have no desire to go back there except maybe a short visit once a year, though there's a chance I could be convinced to move to the West Coast or the Northeast.

As above, I just don't see the appeal in my hometown anymore. Of course I miss my friends and family. There are parts of the culture I miss a lot because I know I'll never find anything quite like them anywhere else in the world. But I also grew up in the milk white, WASP-y out-the-wazoo, religious, conservative, country club set. The expectation for me growing up was that I would marry a lawyer/doctor/politician, have 2.4 kids, and have a summer house at the beach/lake where I down alcohol like it's water. That's just not what I want, and I felt like I was going nowhere really fast before I got here.

That said, I don't see myself staying in Korea, or even in Asia, forever. Realistically, I see myself settling in Canada, or maybe England (this is still several years off, so we'll see what happens post-Brexit). hat happens post-Brexit).

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #16 on: April 11, 2017, 04:53:57 PM »
Here's a nice article by J.D. Vance, the author of Hillbilly Elegy.

'Why I'm Moving Home'

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/16/opinion/why-im-moving-home.html

I like that he's trying to make a conversation out of this. Don't we have some obligation to the places we were raised? Doesn't capitalism as it stands now perhaps overvalue a mobile workforce, creating the 'brain drain' that is such a contributor to the hollowing out of middle America that has been so devastating to those areas? It's too bad that following your dreams so often means abandoning your community.

N.B. It's telling that the author makes such an impassioned argument only to reveal that he actually didn't return to his native Appalachian town, but rather to Cleveland, the nearest metropolis.

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #17 on: April 11, 2017, 06:10:26 PM »
Here's a nice article by J.D. Vance, the author of Hillbilly Elegy.

'Why I'm Moving Home'

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/16/opinion/why-im-moving-home.html

I like that he's trying to make a conversation out of this. Don't we have some obligation to the places we were raised? Doesn't capitalism as it stands now perhaps overvalue a mobile workforce, creating the 'brain drain' that is such a contributor to the hollowing out of middle America that has been so devastating to those areas? It's too bad that following your dreams so often means abandoning your community.

N.B. It's telling that the author makes such an impassioned argument only to reveal that he actually didn't return to his native Appalachian town, but rather to Cleveland, the nearest metropolis.

Obligation to what, exactly (asked with genuine curiosity and not INTERNET CONFRONTATION)? Even before SCROTUS, the US was mostly hostile towards its citizens. For context: I come from modest privilege, moved all over the country and, as an adult, lived in three major cities on the West Coast. I had stable, full time jobs with benefits.

What did that mean for me? A 9-5 that was actually a 9-7, two weeks vacation TOPS, medical insurance that still resulted in rather high deductibles/copays, and a cost of living that was (and continues to be) absurd. In my eyes, I was lucky compared to most. And while I enjoyed my time there, it is not a path that leads to much growth or happiness.

Of course this comes down to a different strokes/folks argument and Korea is by no means my forever home but there's surely no love lost between myself and the US.  :undecided:

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #18 on: April 11, 2017, 06:18:15 PM »
Hell yes, and I will, soon!

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Re: Would you ever move back to your home country?
« Reply #19 on: April 11, 2017, 06:36:29 PM »
Here's a nice article by J.D. Vance, the author of Hillbilly Elegy.

'Why I'm Moving Home'

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/16/opinion/why-im-moving-home.html

I like that he's trying to make a conversation out of this. Don't we have some obligation to the places we were raised? Doesn't capitalism as it stands now perhaps overvalue a mobile workforce, creating the 'brain drain' that is such a contributor to the hollowing out of middle America that has been so devastating to those areas? It's too bad that following your dreams so often means abandoning your community.

N.B. It's telling that the author makes such an impassioned argument only to reveal that he actually didn't return to his native Appalachian town, but rather to Cleveland, the nearest metropolis.

Obligation to what, exactly (asked with genuine curiosity and not INTERNET CONFRONTATION)? Even before SCROTUS, the US was mostly hostile towards its citizens. For context: I come from modest privilege, moved all over the country and, as an adult, lived in three major cities on the West Coast. I had stable, full time jobs with benefits.

What did that mean for me? A 9-5 that was actually a 9-7, two weeks vacation TOPS, medical insurance that still resulted in rather high deductibles/copays, and a cost of living that was (and continues to be) absurd. In my eyes, I was lucky compared to most. And while I enjoyed my time there, it is not a path that leads to much growth or happiness.

Of course this comes down to a different strokes/folks argument and Korea is by no means my forever home but there's surely no love lost between myself and the US.  :undecided:

I don't think you or anyone else (myself especially ;D) made a bad choice in moving where they had opportunity, especially if it was away from a place that had none. I'm more lamenting the fact that there doesn't seem to be enough opportunity more evenly distributed throughout the country/world. The system in place now doesn't put any premium on staying in a community that could use support. The bonds that have normally bound us to communities have fallen apart (although funny that Americans are less mobile now than they have been in a long time, probably having more to do with the cost of housing, lack of job stability). Plus there's the whole pop culture valorization of leaving podunk small town in favor of striking it big in the big city. Self-realization over common cause.
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