Also..."to go a bit softer on me".....? Please explain.
Most of the guys on here wouldn't have minded a bit of disbelief/direct questioning/piss taking about their story.
God's honest truth I had no idea you were a female till people started wading in and getting all protective (i thought the guy was jerking off over your friend) Maybe announce it in the first place in the future, if you want people to go a bit softer on you.
I don't know many guys who'd go with a name like dippedinblush. And for the record I had no problem believing this story. This went from the best thread ever to just downright awkward, thanks to the door brigade. What is door brigade?
Are you serious LI/LIC?
Just to clarify:as·sault/əˈs�verbpast tense: assaulted; past participle: assaultedmake a physical attack on."he pleaded guilty to assaulting a police officer"Similar:hitstrikephysically attackaim blows atslapsmackbeatthrashspankthumpthwackpunchcuffswatknockrappummelpoundbatterpeltweltcanelashwhipclubcudgelbox someone's earscloutwallopbeltwhackbashclobberbopbiffsockdeckslugplugknock about/aroundlay intodo overrough upquiltsmiterapesexually assaultmolestinterfere withcarry out a military attack or raid on (an enemy position)."they left their strong position to assault the hill"While the wanker certainly broke the law I don’t believe your use of the word assault is fitting. Not trying to be a dick but I find it a bit disingenuous to keep repeating you were assaulted.
Quote from: sammie5460 on May 07, 2020, 11:23:49 amOkay can you guys stop questioning someone who was a victim in this situation? She already explained Also can I say that someone believing me and sticking up for me is not "white-knighting".....I'm so sick of men using this flimsy phrase to shame people that are going against what you are doing and saying, and sticking up for people that need it. And I did need it at the time. Thanks for being the only person to actually believe me and not automatically cast judgements. It really was a bunch of men piling on and acting like fools, debating about doors and locks and keypads. Gross.Honestly, some men in this forum are so strange...stoat, you are an absolute jerk. You are the person I'd least like to share a beer with, you old goat..old goat stoat. Do you perhaps own a purple tie? No wonder there are like 2-3 women actively posting on this site. C02 I expected better from you.Who is quoting what here? Dipped, you're great, but if your formatting is a bit wonky..... Who am I replying to? You or Sammie?JESUS CHRIST. NOW I'M DOING IT. WHO F'ED UP?
Okay can you guys stop questioning someone who was a victim in this situation? She already explained Also can I say that someone believing me and sticking up for me is not "white-knighting".....I'm so sick of men using this flimsy phrase to shame people that are going against what you are doing and saying, and sticking up for people that need it. And I did need it at the time. Thanks for being the only person to actually believe me and not automatically cast judgements. It really was a bunch of men piling on and acting like fools, debating about doors and locks and keypads. Gross.Honestly, some men in this forum are so strange...stoat, you are an absolute jerk. You are the person I'd least like to share a beer with, you old goat..old goat stoat. Do you perhaps own a purple tie? No wonder there are like 2-3 women actively posting on this site. C02 I expected better from you.
I never repeated i was assaulted. I said I was assaulted 3 times in Korea and this was the first (that was in my first post). I classify this as an assault...he entered my home without permission and assaulted me with his lewdness. What the hell is going on with the men in this forum???
Now, bear with me here. I'm going to explain this. I'm not picking sides, I'm not trying to poopoo on you. Just know that. A lot of people, men and women, consider assault to be physical contact only. This isn't to defend the Ajeossi, this isn't to say that it wasn't an awful experience for you. The problem here lies in someone being raped saying they were sexually assaulted and someone saying "a man sexually assaulted me in the park when he flashed me."Again, no one deserves what happened to you, and I'd be the first to throw him on the ground whilst the police came. When people use assault for things, such as you did, it upsets a lot of people. And I understand what they mean. Assault, by definition, is physical contact. If someone says "Ugh, that LMFAO song raped my ears," A lot of people would bristle, and rightfully so. It's obviously embellishing for effect, and I know that's not what you're doing. But it does rub people the wrong way. I understand that, but you don't understand that he watched me and the other lady beside me in the other villa shower. She identified him as well! That is an assault. He not only came into my home but watched me in my shower for I don't know how long! To me that is an assault!
Quote from: CO2 on May 07, 2020, 08:38:04 pmNow, bear with me here. I'm going to explain this. I'm not picking sides, I'm not trying to poopoo on you. Just know that. A lot of people, men and women, consider assault to be physical contact only. This isn't to defend the Ajeossi, this isn't to say that it wasn't an awful experience for you. The problem here lies in someone being raped saying they were sexually assaulted and someone saying "a man sexually assaulted me in the park when he flashed me."Again, no one deserves what happened to you, and I'd be the first to throw him on the ground whilst the police came. When people use assault for things, such as you did, it upsets a lot of people. And I understand what they mean. Assault, by definition, is physical contact. If someone says "Ugh, that LMFAO song raped my ears," A lot of people would bristle, and rightfully so. It's obviously embellishing for effect, and I know that's not what you're doing. But it does rub people the wrong way. I understand that, but you don't understand that he watched me and the other lady beside me in the other villa shower. She identified him as well! That is an assault. He not only came into my home but watched me in my shower for I don't know how long! To me that is an assault! Why is this quoting this way
Now, bear with me here. I'm going to explain this. I'm not picking sides, I'm not trying to poopoo on you. Just know that. A lot of people, men and women, consider assault to be physical contact only. This isn't to defend the Ajeossi, this isn't to say that it wasn't an awful experience for you. The problem here lies in someone being raped saying they were sexually assaulted and someone saying "a man sexually assaulted me in the park when he flashed me."Again, no one deserves what happened to you, and I'd be the first to throw him on the ground whilst the police came. When people use assault for things, such as you did, it upsets a lot of people. And I understand what they mean. Assault, by definition, is physical contact. If someone says "Ugh, that LMFAO song raped my ears," A lot of people would bristle, and rightfully so. It's obviously embellishing for effect, and I know that's not what you're doing. But it does rub people the wrong way.
