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  • OnNut81
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98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« on: December 31, 2020, 07:53:47 am »
because of hatred.  This has to change, Fight. Bigotry.

Don't have a link to the image but this was sent to me to show how ridiculous things are getting. It's from the Trans Rights Campaign.   So, now it's no longer acceptable to go by personal attraction when you date someone?  You have to be willing to date people you feel no innate attraction for, because if you don't you're bigoted?  If I don't want to date a trans women it isn't because I hate them.  There just hasn't been an attraction to them.  I knew some in Phuket.  Some were beautiful, but didn't stir any feelings of attraction for me.  I certainly didn't feel anything negative towards them, let alone hatred.

I almost feel sorry for the young straight progressive guy who now needs to date a trans to show he's accepting of trans people.  Isn't there a term for pressuring someone to be with someone they don't actually want to be with?  Regardless, that's going to be a tough nut to swallow for some young progressives. 
« Last Edit: December 31, 2020, 08:54:45 am by OnNut81 »


Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #1 on: December 31, 2020, 08:32:33 am »
Dating and Love is the last bastion where anything you want goes.

You don't want INSERT GROUP co-workers? No, that's not how it works.

You don't want INSERT GROUP friends? That's kind of shitty.

You don't want INSERT GROUP as your life partner? Totally fine.

I'm under NO obligation to date you. At all. If that makes me a transphobe in some people's eyes, then so be it.

People who defend this kind of stuff sound like the incels of the LGBTQ2I+ world.  "Why won't he date me? I'm a nice person."


Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #2 on: December 31, 2020, 08:39:05 am »
I’d date one .... in prison
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  • oglop
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #3 on: December 31, 2020, 08:52:48 am »
because of hatred.  This has to change, Fight. Bigotry.

Don't have a link to the image but this was sent to me to show how ridiculous things are getting. It's from the Trans Rights Campaign.   So, now it's no longer acceptable to go by personal attraction when you date someone?  You have to be willing to date people you feel no innate attraction for, because if you don't you're bigoted?  If I don't want to date a trans women it isn't because I hate them.  There just hasn't ben an attraction to them.  I knew some in Phuket.  Some were beautiful, but didn't stir any feelings of attraction for me.  I certainly didn't feel anything negative towards them, let alone hatred.

I almost feel sorry for the young straight progressive guy who now needs to date a trans to show he's accepting of trans people.  Isn't there a term for pressuring someone to be with someone they don't actually want to be with?  Regardless, that's going to be a tough nut to swallow for some young progressives. 
best not to worry if you see images/stories like that

they are either shared/written by someone trolling or someone who is a moron


  • OnNut81
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #4 on: December 31, 2020, 08:56:08 am »
best not to worry if you see images/stories like that

they are either shared/written by someone trolling or someone who is a moron

I have no doubt there are some dudes who will bend over backwards to show how woke they are. 

But this is where the progressive position really starts to conflict with other progressive agendas. Obviously, the instance I cited above would use straight men as the example as opposed to straight women.  But, if a straight woman doesn't choose to date a trans man, are they bigoted and full of hatred towards that man, or are they exercising their freedom of choice? 
« Last Edit: December 31, 2020, 09:44:08 am by OnNut81 »


Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #5 on: December 31, 2020, 09:04:58 am »
But, if a straight woman doesn't choose to date a trans man, are they bigoted and full of hatred towards that man, or are they exercising their freedom of choice? 
I thought no means no, full stop. Maybe I need an update patch.


  • stoat
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #6 on: December 31, 2020, 09:09:29 am »
Saw a video the other day about a fugly guy who identified as a woman without having any procedures, but get this, he identfied as a lesbian woman and now has a girlfriend. Is this going to be a new subtle ruse for a certain type of guy to score I wonder


  • OnNut81
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #7 on: December 31, 2020, 09:49:03 am »
I thought no means no, full stop. Maybe I need an update patch.

I think this now means if you are a straight man that turns down a trans woman, it's because you're bigoted and full of hatred towards trans people.  If a straight woman turns down a trans man it's ok.  Sometimes I just have to storyboard it so it's clear in my mind.  I think I've got it now. 


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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #8 on: December 31, 2020, 09:51:41 am »
I almost feel sorry for the young straight progressive guy who now needs to date a trans to show he's accepting of trans people.
I mean hey, femboys are pretty popular amongst internet degenerates these days. I think what it really boils down to is 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women who don't physically pass as female. Which must sting for them, but it is what it is.

Now a lot of them probably wouldn't date the more conventionally attractive ones either, but they'd at least take a second glance.


  • stoat
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #9 on: December 31, 2020, 09:56:40 am »
I think this now means if you are a straight man that turns down a trans woman, it's because you're bigoted and full of hatred towards trans people.  If a straight woman turns down a trans man it's ok.  Sometimes I just have to storyboard it so it's clear in my mind.  I think I've got it now. 

But surely if 'trans women are women', you're just a guy turning down a woman, which I think is still OK.


  • hangook77
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #10 on: December 31, 2020, 09:57:15 am »
I have no doubt there are some dudes who will bend over backwards to show how woke they are. 

But this is where the progressive position really starts to conflict with other progressive agendas. Obviously, the instance I cited above would use straight men as the example as opposed to straight women.  But, if a straight woman doesn't choose to date a trans man, are they bigoted and full of hatred towards that man, or are they exercising their freedom of choice? 

Straight women still lose in many ways, including sports.  A trans woman (man) will beat their record every time.  The left is looney nowadays.  Old liberalism is long dead.  People like Biden are a trojan horse.  Harris and other folks are drooling at the mouth for this stuff and support it.  The Democrats have an "anti discrimination" bill before the house banning such "hate".  While I still believe Trump (will take the oath of office come Jan 20th), some of you who supported Biden Harris had better give your head a shake.  You will be doxed, fired, fined, harassed, bullied, threatened, and eventually jailed for remotely disagreeing.  Give it 10 years or so.  (Next up, the creeping legalization of pedophilia.  Long term plans, not necessarily starting in 2021.) 

Edit: March 2021, be reinstated at some point due to fraud last year.
« Last Edit: March 05, 2021, 01:52:05 pm by hangook77 »
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #11 on: December 31, 2020, 10:18:29 am »
Old liberalism is long dead.  People like Biden are a trojan horse.  Harris and other folks are drooling at the mouth for this stuff and support it.
Nah, Biden barely knows what he's talking about and Harris just says what she needs to say to get in power (remember when M4A was the hot topic and she signed on to Bernie's plan? She sure flipped on that). They'll give lip service but they are hardly bastions of leftism.


(Next up, the creeping legalization of pedophilia.  Long term plans, not necessarily starting in 2021.)
I can't see this ever happening lol. Although the whole cuties debacle was tragic. The "journo class" really misplayed their hand on that one.


  • Savant
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #12 on: December 31, 2020, 10:27:45 am »
I have no doubt there are some dudes who will bend over backwards to show how woke they are. 

But this is where the progressive position really starts to conflict with other progressive agendas. Obviously, the instance I cited above would use straight men as the example as opposed to straight women.  But, if a straight woman doesn't choose to date a trans man, are they bigoted and full of hatred towards that man, or are they exercising their freedom of choice? 

Why does this bother you?


  • Savant
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #13 on: December 31, 2020, 10:30:11 am »
Straight women still lose in many ways, including sports.  A trans woman (man) will beat their record every time.  The left is looney nowadays.  Old liberalism is long dead.  People like Biden are a trojan horse.  Harris and other folks are drooling at the mouth for this stuff and support it.  The Democrats have an "anti discrimination" bill before the house banning such "hate".  While I still believe Trump will take the oath of office come Jan 20th, some of you who supported Biden Harris had better give your head a shake.  You will be doxed, fired, fined, harassed, bullied, threatened, and eventually jailed for remotely disagreeing.  Give it 10 years or so.  (Next up, the creeping legalization of pedophilia.  Long term plans, not necessarily starting in 2021.) 

Good to end 2020 with a bang. You really own the "kook" part of your username.


  • 745sticky
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #14 on: December 31, 2020, 10:34:55 am »
Why does this bother you?
Although he probably doesn't mean it like that, there is a legitimate conversation to be had on transness, sexual relationships, and consent.


  • OnNut81
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #15 on: December 31, 2020, 10:38:51 am »
Why does this bother you?

Why does what bother me?  In that quote I am saying the progressives are getting so far out there in their bid to show how woke they are, they are heading towards a conflict.  Who will be the most awake?


  • stoat
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #16 on: December 31, 2020, 10:39:31 am »
Why does this bother you?

Can't speak for Onuts but people have already been investigated by the police in the UK for claiming trans women are not the same as women.  Saying aloud that you wouldn't date a trans women for this reason could lead to you being reported for a 'non criminal hate incident'. This goes on your record and can hinder things like future job applications.


  • Savant
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #17 on: December 31, 2020, 10:55:25 am »
Although he probably doesn't mean it like that, there is a legitimate conversation to be had on transness, sexual relationships, and consent.

You said it right but I don't think other posters are capable of making the same legitimate points.


  • Savant
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #18 on: December 31, 2020, 11:02:56 am »
Can't speak for Onuts but people have already been investigated by the police in the UK for claiming trans women are not the same as women.  Saying aloud that you wouldn't date a trans women for this reason could lead to you being reported for a 'non criminal hate incident'. This goes on your record and can hinder things like future job applications.

Of course, the police action is wrong. And a quick google search reveals that the Courts have been over-turning the police actions.


  • stoat
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Re: 98% of straight men are unwilling to date trans women...
« Reply #19 on: December 31, 2020, 11:17:24 am »
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Of course, the police action is wrong. And a quick google search reveals that the Courts have been over-turning the police actions.

They'll have their work cut out for them. I hope everyone else has the 150 grand it cost Harry Miller.

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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8006275/Police-record-120-000-cases-non-crime-hate-incidents.html

« Last Edit: December 31, 2020, 11:26:30 am by stoat »