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  • ToilingAjumma
  • Super Waygook

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    • September 06, 2022, 09:12:01 pm
    • LargeKoreanCitizenCountry
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #80 on: October 19, 2022, 07:53:42 am »
When Koreans say "so-so" they mean "Not so bad" (a little good).

Another coded thing Koreans do is "I don't know about that."

So when you talk about how X was Y back in 1992? And they say "I don't know about that" and they look serious? It doesn't mean "OH WOW, TELL ME MORE" it means "IDGAF. DON'T TELL ME."


  • VanIslander
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Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #81 on: October 19, 2022, 11:45:16 am »
Another coded thing Koreans do is "I don't know about that."

So when you talk about how X was Y back in 1992? And they say "I don't know about that" and they look serious? It doesn't mean "OH WOW, TELL ME MORE" it means "IDGAF. DON'T TELL ME."
And the use of "Maybe".

It means in English, something like:" possibly but probably not", less than 50% chance.

But two Korean teachers, one in 2020 and one in 2017, i recall asking - on special game day team plans - whether a given student will be absent again after being absent previously, and the two Korean teachers, one each year said: "maybe" and when i asked again on the specific day, i recall each looking shocked and telling me they told me already that the particular student would be absent. The first time i bit my tongue, as the teacher was a hothead who loved to argue and she never relented; the second time i thought "a-ha" this is a translation thing, and they didn't mean "probably not" when they said "maybe", but something more akin to "I think so but am not sure."
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  • Renma
  • Super Waygook

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    • September 01, 2014, 06:09:42 am
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #82 on: October 19, 2022, 12:04:26 pm »
This anecdote is Korshare worthy


  • ToilingAjumma
  • Super Waygook

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    • September 06, 2022, 09:12:01 pm
    • LargeKoreanCitizenCountry
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #83 on: October 19, 2022, 12:06:58 pm »


  • D.L.Orean
  • Hero of Waygookistan

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    • February 25, 2020, 09:34:41 am
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #84 on: October 19, 2022, 12:10:17 pm »
And the use of "Maybe".

It means in English, something like:" possibly but probably not", less than 50% chance.

But two Korean teachers, one in 2020 and one in 2017, i recall asking - on special game day team plans - whether a given student will be absent again after being absent previously, and the two Korean teachers, one each year said: "maybe" and when i asked again on the specific day, i recall each looking shocked and telling me they told me already that the particular student would be absent. The first time i bit my tongue, as the teacher was a hothead who loved to argue and she never relented; the second time i thought "a-ha" this is a translation thing, and they didn't mean "probably not" when they said "maybe", but something more akin to "I think so but am not sure."

This is not a confusing use of "maybe"




  • VanIslander
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Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #85 on: October 19, 2022, 12:32:38 pm »
This is not a confusing use of "maybe"
Three days after "maybe":

"I TOLD YOU he wasn't coming!"
(Er, you said maybe. Don't be shocked at this. You teach him four days a week. A little more certainty than "maybe" (less than 50% surely in any context back home, in an English context).

After repeated examples of such, their "maybe" has to be taken as probably or at least as equivalent to: "i think so", which is not said hereabouts much, but would help.

Life's to live! Live! Breathe. Relax. Enjoy. Animals teach us to focus on family, friends and avoid danger. Get what you need and get along with others. That said, some rock the boat, but they know capsizin' it means they're sunk. Some sink, let's swim! The sea's big, great, but has undercurrents.


  • Augustiner
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    • December 06, 2021, 01:18:06 pm
    • Anyang
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #86 on: October 19, 2022, 12:41:20 pm »
Three days after "maybe":

"I TOLD YOU he wasn't coming!"
(Er, you said maybe. Don't be shocked at this. You teach him four days a week. A little more certainty than "maybe" (less than 50% surely in any context back home, in an English context).

After repeated examples of such, their "maybe" has to be taken as probably or at least as equivalent to: "i think so", which is not said hereabouts much, but would help.

Has it ever occurred to you that your co-teachers went and discussed how YOUR English wasn't very precise or helpful? Your complaints about other's language abilities are decidedly one-sided. 


  • ToilingAjumma
  • Super Waygook

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    • September 06, 2022, 09:12:01 pm
    • LargeKoreanCitizenCountry
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #87 on: October 19, 2022, 12:43:49 pm »
Has it ever occurred to you that your co-teachers went and discussed how YOUR English wasn't very precise or helpful?

Maybe


  • D.L.Orean
  • Hero of Waygookistan

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    • February 25, 2020, 09:34:41 am
Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #88 on: October 19, 2022, 12:45:32 pm »
Three days after "maybe":

"I TOLD YOU he wasn't coming!"
(Er, you said maybe. Don't be shocked at this. You teach him four days a week. A little more certainty than "maybe" (less than 50% surely in any context back home, in an English context).

After repeated examples of such, their "maybe" has to be taken as probably or at least as equivalent to: "i think so", which is not said hereabouts much, but would help.

Back home I'd take maybe to mean a 50% chance (40-60% to give a little leeway). And in the context you mentioned I'd assume there was a greater chance of the student being absent than not.

Either way, your anecdote goes no way to helping any newbies understand the use of "maybe" in Korea.



  • VanIslander
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Re: The forgotten elephant in the room: COVID(19).
« Reply #89 on: October 19, 2022, 01:00:21 pm »
The general mod policy is:

If you have a question or concern about moderating then take it up with another mod via pm. (It will maybe satisfy.)

Let the discussion boards move on.

The COVID discussion here is apparently (based on the last dozen posts) done.
« Last Edit: October 19, 2022, 01:15:06 pm by VanIslander »
Life's to live! Live! Breathe. Relax. Enjoy. Animals teach us to focus on family, friends and avoid danger. Get what you need and get along with others. That said, some rock the boat, but they know capsizin' it means they're sunk. Some sink, let's swim! The sea's big, great, but has undercurrents.