First off sorry to hear about this problem. I think pretty much all of us have had the unruly classes to some degree and have had to come up with a good ways to fix it. But by the sounds of it, the boys have given up and it's not going to be easy to fix. My more understanding side would be to try and see them outside of the classroom, maybe during lunchtime and break time and see what they get up to. If they're into football, try playing with them. When I taught in a rural middle school I used to play football with the bad boys and it was fun and over time they became some of my best behaved students. If they're into cards or something play along, if they can see that you're a 'human' then they can slowly bring them around to way of thinking. I think sometimes teachers just sit in their classroom and don't try and see what students get on with in their downtime. Also you said it is your 4th day, that is a very short time to be teaching and it is possible before things can change for the better. This would be my long game, if you feel you have the inclination and are up for a challenge. Why don't you have a co-teacher? Is this a regular 1st to 6th period class? If so you shouldn't be allowed teach like that. When I was in my terrible elementary class a few years back, I had a co-teacher who was hopeless and was the reason the students behaved so badly. So I can sympathise with the removing of the students. A couple of the homeroom teachers didn't use to mind getting the bad kids but a couple of them complained because I sent the students to them. It was their free time. Bit selfish really. I would also think about stopping any rewards system, it obviously isn't doing anything to fix the situation and is not a bargaining chip in this situation. You're going to have to get tough with this situation. You shouldn't really be in this situation but as most know, sometimes we have to fend for ourselves.
But I have a question, is it normal for kids to demand and yell and try to take things out of your hands?
Quote from: Bingsu on March 21, 2018, 09:29:18 pmBut I have a question, is it normal for kids to demand and yell and try to take things out of your hands?No , its not normal.Discipline has gone out the window since they stopped corporal punishment here 8 years ago. Since then the teachers are increasingly abused by students.
I think I'm going to make a seating chart since they tend to sit in the same spots all the time. I did notice when I'd snap a photo of them standing on the desk, they would panic and sit down. I assume they thought I was sending it to their teacher. I'll take clips next time and play them back like you suggested. That's good. However next time you should do this on the first day when you are starting a new job. It's best to start hard and go softI think I'm going to stop the candy (it only started as a way to get them to calm down) since they're getting too terrible with it. I started doing the 3 Smiles on the board thing a few classes ago, and once all 3 are gone they lose a day toward the reward but I like the writing assignment idea.I give out candy once a month as a reward to the Student of the Month. Otherwise I never give out candy. Giving out too much candy really supports bribe culture which is bad for students and will demotivate them down the road.Maybe stickers work better for them instead of candy.At some public schools they have a market day when students convert their stickers into fake money and buy stuff. This is a good ideaOne of my 5th graders told me of a stationary store a short distance from my school, so I can pick up some stuff there easily before/after classes.I really do appreciate all the tips everyone is giving me. I knew I could have a bad class but I never thought they'd be this bad. All of my other grades are very sweet and pay attention in class so I think this is just a one off situation in this school.I have them again tomorrow so I'll try to get it all set up smooth and see how it works next week as well.If it's a public school you need to get some other teachers at the school to get on board with your new disipline policy. You should also get the repeat offenders in trouble with their homeroom teachers and parentsThank you guys so much <3
I think I'm going to make a seating chart since they tend to sit in the same spots all the time. I did notice when I'd snap a photo of them standing on the desk, they would panic and sit down. I assume they thought I was sending it to their teacher. I'll take clips next time and play them back like you suggested.I think I'm going to stop the candy (it only started as a way to get them to calm down) since they're getting too terrible with it. I started doing the 3 Smiles on the board thing a few classes ago, and once all 3 are gone they lose a day toward the reward but I like the writing assignment idea.Maybe stickers work better for them instead of candy.One of my 5th graders told me of a stationary store a short distance from my school, so I can pick up some stuff there easily before/after classes.I really do appreciate all the tips everyone is giving me. I knew I could have a bad class but I never thought they'd be this bad. All of my other grades are very sweet and pay attention in class so I think this is just a one off situation in this school.I have them again tomorrow so I'll try to get it all set up smooth and see how it works next week as well.Thank you guys so much <3
I didn't read through everything. Is this an after school style class? Maybe try some things like visuals that are printed on paper. Maybe slowly teach them terms related to activities which you can do all together. Maybe basically an origami class with English elements and terms. I would also suggest you teach terms with prints and post them on the wall, maybe a worksheet where they match or this or that, then actually move to making something. Start small and work up. I did this once, and we made and decorated paper airplanes, made paper shirts, and different things. Also, maybe you can try to use like that song where the girl plays the cups, and have them learn the song and do the cup thing. Maybe work up to a grand finale where you record it and the teachers can play it for everyone when they are in their homeroom or something. Not sure if this stuff will work, but maybe it can get you thinking differently. Also, when I did something similar, I made the desks into kind of a U, and sat them pretty much boy/girl (or not with their buddies).
Public school after school classes. We're just now starting "Hello, my name is" and "It's nice to meet you."Honestly I'm at the point of giving up with these kids.Today I had two boys get into a fistfight, one boy tackled another and really hurt the poor kid's leg, and for some unknown reason one of my boys pulled out a tub of gochujang, opened it, and just....tipped it over the side. I honestly cannot make this up. I actually took a picture of them secretly with the container after I had to clean up the mess.I ended up crying 3 times in an hour because I was so overwhelmed and frustrated and lost.I have a HUGE issue with them having their phones out in class and it was a massive battle to get them to put them on the desk near mine, only 4/16 actually did it. Could really use that CoT instead of more worksheets since all but a few of them ended up on the floor. I can't even get them to sit down for more than 5 seconds or write their names on the top of the paper, any activity we do is a fiery nosedive into chaos.
What's the legality behind setting up a hidden camera and recording the class to show my MT as evidence to why I need a CoT? I know Korea has some weird privacy laws, but I honestly just think recording how they act to use as proof would be covered.