I second what gagevt said. Just be laid-back. You don't have to be their friend, but you should be friendly. Also, what I find helps is to over-react to everything. You are drinking some coffee and the students ask if it's delicious? Why yes, it is the best coffee you've ever had. Student gives you a piece of candy? Solid gold birthday present! Students won't give you a piece of candy? Arrows to the heart! Drop your marker in class? Hindenburg disaster! If you can do all of this with a straight face, that makes things that much better.
Another thing I should really stress. Don't fall into the trap of playing too many bomb games. This can really backfire. Particularly when the thrill of the cool graphics wears off and the students get sick of the same predictable sequence. Try other kinds of games and activities really mix it up. A bomb game every now and then is great. When they become a regular part of your teaching approach they really lose their power. Use them as a treat or novelty.