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Offline kimchi_mandu

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #40 on: April 26, 2017, 10:52:55 AM »
Last year I was living in a tiny officetel next to some extremely noisy neighbours. Actually, I guess they weren't that noisy, just the walls were extremely thin. I could hear fights, DV, makeup sex, coughing, spitting, every single phone call. On my side of the wall, those sounds were probably around 35db. It still drove me absolutely insane. People are saying how it's similar to someone whispering. So, how would you feel if you're trying to read a book, relax or sleep and someone is just standing next to you whispering nonsense for hours on end? It is annoying af.
I do think the OP should be a bit more considerate next time, but maybe that's because I almost murdered someone last year due to being able to hear them 24/7.

"Please sit still in your home, completely motionless and silent."

Well that's how I like to exist  :laugh:
Really I'd have been happy if they'd have just quietened down after 11, but no, I'd be woken up by them loudly chatting on the phone at 4am because my earplugs had fallen out in my sleep. Or her screaming because he was beating the shit out of her, or her moaning because he was pumping her. Never. Ending. Noise.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #41 on: April 26, 2017, 10:58:09 AM »
Last year I was living in a tiny officetel next to some extremely noisy neighbours. Actually, I guess they weren't that noisy, just the walls were extremely thin. I could hear fights, DV, makeup sex, coughing, spitting, every single phone call. On my side of the wall, those sounds were probably around 35db. It still drove me absolutely insane. People are saying how it's similar to someone whispering. So, how would you feel if you're trying to read a book, relax or sleep and someone is just standing next to you whispering nonsense for hours on end? It is annoying af.
I do think the OP should be a bit more considerate next time, but maybe that's because I almost murdered someone last year due to being able to hear them 24/7.

A nice pair of headphones or earmuffs would've solved your problem.  I wear a huge noise cancelling headset when I use my computer for example.  Can't hear a thing around me.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #42 on: April 26, 2017, 11:00:01 AM »
Oh man, It's times like this I wish I wasn't a virgin.

Nice one mate. Just turn the vacuum on instead that seems acceptable at 7 in the morning 7 days a week for my neighbours.

only 7am? you haven't lived until you've experienced the 5am vacuum wake up call!

or the fact that 2am seems to be an acceptable time to move every single piece of furniture in your apartment around.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #43 on: April 26, 2017, 11:05:41 AM »
Last year I was living in a tiny officetel next to some extremely noisy neighbours. Actually, I guess they weren't that noisy, just the walls were extremely thin. I could hear fights, DV, makeup sex, coughing, spitting, every single phone call. On my side of the wall, those sounds were probably around 35db. It still drove me absolutely insane. People are saying how it's similar to someone whispering. So, how would you feel if you're trying to read a book, relax or sleep and someone is just standing next to you whispering nonsense for hours on end? It is annoying af.
I do think the OP should be a bit more considerate next time, but maybe that's because I almost murdered someone last year due to being able to hear them 24/7.

A nice pair of headphones or earmuffs would've solved your problem.  I wear a huge noise cancelling headset when I use my computer for example.  Can't hear a thing around me.

Moving solved my problem.

Earmuffs and headphones are a pain when I'm trying to sleep. Did use earplugs but somehow they always fall out, and sometimes I could still hear them a little bit. A little consideration seriously would have gone a long way. The neighbour on the other side was pretty much fine as well.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #44 on: April 26, 2017, 12:00:16 PM »
Wow some people really need to get a life, especially considering how mild that is for Korea. I've seen two different neighbors removed from two different buildings here. It takes a hell of a lot more than just some hanky panky to get the police to care. The first neighbor pretty much had two settings: drunken fighting or drunken banging. Her train wreck of a boyfriend would be over all the time and it was hell to be in the same building. Honestly though there is a very real problem with how pathetically thin the walls can be here. They were on the second floor and you could literally hear sex noises the second you walked into the building. The second time it was some Korean dude in his 30s who would come home late at night and proceed to yell, scream, cry, throw shit, etc. My guess is the person who wrote that note is just an uptight, conservative freak.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #45 on: April 26, 2017, 01:26:08 PM »
I remember a few places back, I was waking up one Saturday morning and doing a morning read in bed when I hear the sounds of passion coming from the next room. Sounded young and cute enough. Wonder what she looks like? A few days later I find out.




Ajumma.

I used to live in a small dinky place in a university town and most weekends I would hear the classic sound of springs going up and down and muffled female moans from my neighbours place.
One morning I saw a girl leaving the apt, looking pretty hungover, as I was coming back from putting the trash out. The next week, I saw a different girl leaving, again, after a night of passionate sounds. So I figured my neighbour was a university student playboy.

Then I saw my neighbor leaving for either class or a part time job at the same time as I left for work on a weekday morning.






It was a chick.
Away an bile yer heid ya numpty,ye dinnae ken whit yer talkin aboot.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #46 on: April 26, 2017, 02:26:56 PM »


I used to live in a small dinky place in a university town and most weekends I would hear the classic sound of springs going up and down and muffled female moans from my neighbours place.
One morning I saw a girl leaving the apt, looking pretty hungover, as I was coming back from putting the trash out. The next week, I saw a different girl leaving, again, after a night of passionate sounds. So I figured my neighbour was a university student playboy.

Then I saw my neighbor leaving for either class or a part time job at the same time as I left for work on a weekday morning.






It was a chick.


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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #47 on: April 26, 2017, 02:34:22 PM »
Last year I was living in a tiny officetel next to some extremely noisy neighbours. Actually, I guess they weren't that noisy, just the walls were extremely thin. I could hear fights, DV, makeup sex, coughing, spitting, every single phone call. On my side of the wall, those sounds were probably around 35db. It still drove me absolutely insane. People are saying how it's similar to someone whispering. So, how would you feel if you're trying to read a book, relax or sleep and someone is just standing next to you whispering nonsense for hours on end? It is annoying af.
I do think the OP should be a bit more considerate next time, but maybe that's because I almost murdered someone last year due to being able to hear them 24/7.

A nice pair of headphones or earmuffs would've solved your problem.  I wear a huge noise cancelling headset when I use my computer for example.  Can't hear a thing around me.

It's hard for me to imagine how someone can sleep with headphones or earmuffs on. Those are both pretty bulky and would limit your movement while sleeping. I have a long term issue with my ears due to ear infections as a child and if I even lay with one ear on the pillow for too long it can cause me extreme discomfort and some pain. Ear plugs also cause me pain and discomfort if used for an extended period of time.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #48 on: April 26, 2017, 04:04:54 PM »
It's hard for me to imagine how someone can sleep with headphones or earmuffs on. Those are both pretty bulky and would limit your movement while sleeping. I have a long term issue with my ears due to ear infections as a child and if I even lay with one ear on the pillow for too long it can cause me extreme discomfort and some pain. Ear plugs also cause me pain and discomfort if used for an extended period of time.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOnPmumWfU8

How about a music pillow?

Have it lightly play like soothing music or light ocean/nature noises on 8 hours loop as you sleep.  No earmuffs or earplugs required.

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #49 on: April 26, 2017, 05:50:02 PM »
The ASMR crowd has been tackling this problem for years.

http://discoverasmr.com/what-is-asmr/asmr-headphones/


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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #50 on: April 26, 2017, 06:09:10 PM »
This post looks like a troll, op probably wrote the letter in the picture. In real life the neighbor would of called the cops or the landlord first. My experience is that leaving a note like this is dangerous as it could cause loss of face and the person who wrote the note could be sued!

If this is legit sue for loss of face and raise the volume of your music!

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Re: Passive Aggressive Complaint Left on my Door
« Reply #51 on: April 26, 2017, 11:05:19 PM »
Last year I was living in a tiny officetel next to some extremely noisy neighbours. Actually, I guess they weren't that noisy, just the walls were extremely thin. I could hear fights, DV, makeup sex, coughing, spitting, every single phone call. On my side of the wall, those sounds were probably around 35db.
I highly doubt any of those things are 35 db.

 

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